A BBWCity Chat Room Love Story!

Submitted by: Jay

Date: November 30, 2001

"We were married July 8th in Hobart, Indiana at the Trinity Lutheran Chruch. We are very happy together. Between the two of us we have three jobs but we are out on our own and paying our own bills so it's worth it. We still don't have any children as of yet, but we're trying to change that."

That's all there is. Pretty cut and dried.

sincerly

T_Devil

Submitted by: Jay

First off, This is a true story of young love and of a whirlwind romance. Things happened very quickly for us and we are glad it did because BOTH of our lives have been better!

The Update

This is a true story of young love. Things happened very quickly for us and we are glad it did because BOTH of our lives have been better! My name is Jay P and I'm 23. Everybody knows me as T_Devil. I met the woman I'm going to marry (someday) right here in #BBWCityPark. She is my Perfect Angel named Angela and she's 20, but you all know her as TsAngel. It's kind of interesting how we met seeing neither one of us were looking for love. It was October 6th, 1997 and I was getting a chat program to work, she was there because a friend told her about the site and she was curious. I still remember telling her how to put in a nick name! We got to talking and I started thinking to myself "man, this girl is everything you've been looking for!". We chatted a couple of hours and she asked if I wanted to talk to her on the phone. I said of course and she gave me her phone number and I called her. I heard her voice and it sounded like an angel. She has the most beautiful voice. We talked about so many things that mattered to us. We disarmed ourselves and opened up to each other. We shared all of our feelings, thoughts, hopes and dreams. We talked about what we wanted out of a mate and a relationship. We found we wanted the same things, I think that's when it dawned on both of us that maybe fate had brought us together, maybe we were meant to meet, or perhaps it was our destiny. Whatever it was, we knew we had to meet. We had to see each other face to face, but she lives in Indiana and I live in Wisconsin. She said she was willing to drive the whole way to meet me! I was so taken by her bravery when she said that to me on the phone! I asked her if she was scared and she said "Ya, but I can tell I can trust you, I can feel you are a good person". She's right, and even though she worried her friends and her family, she bravely drove to meet me 5 days later. Now, Up till this point, I had no idea what she looked like. I had emailed a picture of me to her, so she knew what I looked like, and she had snail mailed a picture of her to me. I got the picture the day She was due to arrive! I remember when I saw her picture, I said "WOW! She's beautiful!", and I was just on pins and needles waiting for her. We talked on the phone about when she drove up that the first thing she wanted was a kiss for driving all that way. When she did, I met her out by her car. The most beautiful, brave, determined woman I have ever met in my life, (the one I fell in love with on the spot) flashed a smile that captured me. I HAD to kiss her. We kissed and It didn't even feel like we were on the ground, not even on the planet! Our first kiss was just the most wonderful experience of my life (I still play that kiss over and over in my head). It's one of those fleeting moments in time that is just beyond words and is just emotion. The nervousness, the excitement, the anticipation and the joy all seemed to converge at that one minute in time. I knew I had fallen in love. What was supposed to be a weekend, ended up being a trip to Indiana for me. It was the greatest week and a day of my life! We have plans to meet again Thanksgiving and again on New years. I have never loved anybody as much as I love my Angela. She feels the same way. It was a fast start, but we keep in contact through the Internet, the telephone (The phone bills! YIKES!) and snail mail. Our love is real. We share it and we thank God everyday for each other. Thank you Lorrie and Jim for starting the site and we both wish you the best with it and each other! *****************************ONE YEAR LATER******************************* Well, here it is. An entire year has gone by and Angela and I love each other more now than we ever had. It's still strong and it's still good. We always think of each other, at work, in classes in each others dreams and thoughts. She has inspired me to go for so much in my life, and I've given her someone to belive in because I belive in her. She is everything I've ever wanted. She's beautiful, smart nice and just wonderful to be with. We are still miles apart but we have plans on doing somthing about that, but that's not to say that we don't get to see each other often! We see each other on average once a month. The amount of time varies between a week and a weekend. We support each other and care for and about each other so much that no matter the scrafice, we make it a point to see each other. It's amazing what you can do for sombody that you love. It's in the way they make you feel. It's the strength they give you from the inside. Nothing seems to great to overcome. You just keep thinking of ways to be with that person. All of your thought's seem to hinge on that person. Their joys are your joys and their sorrows are your sorrows. You go above and beyond to make that person smile, after a while, their laugh, that feeling of well being is what you live for, and you want to do that for them everyday. Making her smile is what I live for! To anybody who is reading this that is alone, all I can tell you is that you must never give up hope. Hope is all we have sometimes and we need to hold onto it as tight as we can and not let anybody or anything take it away. Love is alive and no matter what you think, as long as you belive you won't be alone forever, you never will. Loneliness is painfull and it tricks your mind and your heart. Sometimes beliving is just as painfull but you gotta hold out, You gotta feel the goodness that's inside you and draw off that. You can go on and make it happen, just belive you are worthy and have confidence in yourself. Confidence is what people notice and if you emulate that, then you're one step ahead already. I'm no expert, I'm no doctor or psycologist or even a motivational speaker, I'm just a person that spent a long time being alone and I know how it feels. Trust me, Belive in yourself and others will as well. To those of you who are reading this and are in love and just may be thinking about that special person right now, Aint love great? Love is a good thing, Maybe the best of things but we have to remember that love is like the most beautiful flower in the garden, it needs attention and care to stay alive. Love is very powerful and is intensly strong, as long as you belive in each other, you are tapped into a well of power that is as old and as strong as eternity. To my beloved Angela who I know is reading this, I love you and I'm forever grateful we met. I'm very much look forward to the day that we share our life together. I look forward to having you as my wife. You are my whole world, and the sea and the sky too. You make my life wonderful by just being in it and being a part of it. Thank you honey, thank you for making all my dreams come true and I hope that I can be a good husband for you.

My name is Jay P and I'm 23. Everybody knows me as T_Devil. I met the woman I'm going to marry (someday) right here in #BBWCityPark. She is my Perfect Angel named Angela and she's 20, but you all know her as TsAngel.

It's kind of interesting how we met seeing neither one of us were looking for love. It was October 6th, 1997 and I was getting a chat program to work, she was there because a friend told her about the site and she was curious. I still remember telling her how to put in a nick name! We got to talking and I started thinking to myself "man, this girl is everything you've been looking for!". We chatted a couple of hours and she asked if I wanted to talk to her on the phone. I said of course and she gave me her phone number and I called her. I heard her voice and it sounded like an angel. She has the most beautiful voice. We talked about so many things that mattered to us. We disarmed ourselves and opened up to each other. We shared all of our feelings, thoughts, hopes and dreams. We talked about what we wanted out of a mate and a relationship. We found we wanted the same things, I think that's when it dawned on both of us that maybe fate had brought us together, maybe we were meant to meet, or perhaps it was our destiny. Whatever it was, we knew we had to meet. We had to see each other face to face, but she lives in Indiana and I live in Wisconsin. She said she was willing to drive the whole way to meet me! I was so taken by her bravery when she said that to me on the phone! I asked her if she was scared and she said "Ya, but I can tell I can trust you, I can feel you are a good person". She's right, and even though she worried her friends and her family, she bravely drove to meet me 5 days later. Now, Up till this point, I had no idea what she looked like. I had emailed a picture of me to her, so she knew what I looked like, and she had snail mailed a picture of her to me. I got the picture the day She was due to arrive! I remember when I saw her picture, I said "WOW! She's beautiful!", and I was just on pins and needles waiting for her. We talked on the phone about when she drove up that the first thing she wanted was a kiss for driving all that way. When she did, I met her out by her car. The most beautiful, brave, determined woman I have ever met in my life, (the one I fell in love with on the spot) flashed a smile that captured me. I HAD to kiss her. We kissed and It didn't even feel like we were on the ground, not even on the planet! Our first kiss was just the most wonderful experience of my life (I still play that kiss over and over in my head). It's one of those fleeting moments in time that is just beyond words and is just emotion. The nervousness, the excitement, the anticipation and the joy all seemed to converge at that one minute in time. I knew I had fallen in love. What was supposed to be a weekend, ended up being a trip to Indiana for me. It was the greatest week and a day of my life! We have plans to meet again Thanksgiving and again on New years. I have never loved anybody as much as I love my Angela. She feels the same way. It was a fast start, but we keep in contact through the Internet, the telephone (The phone bills! YIKES!) and snail mail. Our love is real. We share it and we thank God everyday for each other. Thank you Lorrie and Jim for starting the site and we both wish you the best with it and each other!